"...the erotic offers a well of replenishing and provocative force to the woman who does not fear its revelation, nor succumb to the belief that sensation is enough. The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized sensation. For this reason, we have often turned away from the exploration and consideration of the erotic as a source of power and information..."

- Audre Lorde, "Uses of the Erotic." 1978

Hello, and welcome to my hive. I am Goddess Honey B., and it is my divine pleasure to welcome you to be in community with me. Like mother Audre, I am a deep believer in the ability of the erotic, particularly Bondage Dominance/Discipline Sadism/Submission and Masochism (BDSM), to transform the relationship between people and power.

You are in the right place if

• You are looking to be of service to a powerful Black Goddess
• You have heard the whispers of kink and BDSM as a freedom practice, and you want to explore that more deeply
• You are looking for opportunities to build consciousness, build skills all while building community
• You are a white person wanting to use kink and BDSM to support your growth as a race traitor
• You are curious about and excited by a Black feminist approach to sex and kink

With over 12 years teaching and training adults in various capacities, including 5 years specifically teaching and training about kink and BDSM, I am enlivened by conversations about enthusiastic consent, by working with people to explore their ability to powerfully submit, and supporting the work of folks reimagining their relationship with their bodies, with sex, with their deepest pleasure, and ultimately, with the erotic.

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"...the erotic is not a question of what we do; it is a question of how acutely and fully we can feel in the doing." 

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